The totally open G center in my bodygraph is like an 'authentication meter' for me. If the place I am in does not 'feel' correct, the people in that place are not 'authentic' (Again, Cole's Note version). I have experienced this sensation my whole life, it wasn't until I met design that I could understand it though. If a bitter projector penetrates into my aura, the first thing they do is recognize this open G center, and immediately, they want to 'fix me'. They think I do not know my direction in life so they begin to tell me what I 'should' and 'should not' be doing OR they energetically make adjustments without my invitation. Now, my experience with projectors that are aligned to their true nature. This is a totally different experience for me! These are the projectors that 'feel' authentic and I can't wait to be around them because enveloping their success and inviting in their guidance is powerful for me.
Now, it is not always up to the projector to be aligned; it is about the Gen and Man Gen being aligned as well. Take me for example, if I am living in my conditioned mind and totally frustrated with what is going on, being mentally defensive and pushing my mind's agenda on people, and I am not ready to 'see' what is happening, I most certainly do not want a projector absorbing that shit either! So it is not all about one or the other. It is just that our focus is on the projector right now.
So back to the invitation...
The successful projector will be invited into being a guide to those that require the strength and mastery that a particular projector has to share.
So when our example projector is waving her aura around, the Gens and Man Gens that are requiring guidance on the struggles they are having around how to find their direction in life or how to feel more valued. Those Gens and Man Gens will invite her in.
But, if that Gen or Man Gen is tasting a bitter struggling projector, they will run for the hills and wait for the next aligned projector to show up, which in turn creates more bitterness in the projector because that projector is not recognized as the tenacious fighter and risk-taker that she truly is. She is recognized for a struggling pissy projector.
And the loop continues...
But once the mechanics of your design are revealed to you through an HD reading, your retrospective view, and forward-moving experimentation. The bitterness can then be seen for what it is meant to be and that is a guidepost to keep you as close to your authentic self as possible!
How can you recognize a 'good vs bad' invitation?
The energy behind the invite and the response of your inner authority is how you will recognize if the invite is really real or as fake as three dollar bill!
The energy of the invite can be explained like this. How is the other meeting you? Are you putting in all the effort? Or is the other meeting you or coming all the way to get your successful guidance?
Again, I will use a simple example but you will see what I mean.
Your friend is going to the movie...
- Scenario 1. She tells you that you can come and she tells you she will meet you there.
- Scenario 2. She asks you if you wanna meet her at the movies for the 10 pm late movie because she is going.
- Scenario 3. She calls you and invites you to go with her to watch the latest thriller that is playing at the movie theatre.
She knows you don't like to stay out late so the 7 pm showing has available seats. She offers to pick you up and you know she always brings you your favorite tea when she comes!
Again, this is a simple example, but clearly, you can tell the real invite from the three-dollar bill invite!
So for us non-projectors, it is so important to know that the projectors in your life require you to bring the energy, meet them more than halfway.
This goes for the invitations for you, the projector, share your advice. If the other person is not inviting you in, leave it alone! If you are unclear if they are inviting you to share your expertise or advice, ask the person that is in front of you if they would like your advice or are they just venting.
If that Gen or Man Gen is just venting off the frustration, you will use a ton of your precious energy trying to advise a deaf person! They can't hear you at that moment. Maybe tomorrow when they cool down they will be ready to invite you in, but today that is not the case.
AND be aware of the hook. Do they hook your bitterness to join in with the frustration so the 'pity' party can loop and loop? This is usually what happens so be aware of what you are aligning yourself to. Your bitterness or your success.
And herein lies the whole reason for the blog. When you recognize what you are bringing to the table and what you are aligning to bitterness or success, know that whatever side of the table you are sitting on, bitterness or success, that is where the invitations will originate from! You will be invited to spew more bitterness or play in success!